If you’re a single man planning to attend a Hotwife party, preparation is key, especially when it comes to hygiene and etiquette. Whether it’s your first event or you’re already a regular in the lifestyle, having a small but well-stocked play kit can make a huge difference in how you’re perceived, and how ready you are to go the distance. Think of it like a grooming and essentials bag, no bigger than a typical shaving kit, but packed with just the right tools to keep you fresh, respectful, and ready for action.
The Essentials You Should Always Carry
Condoms: Always come prepared with non-latex condoms. Some people have allergies, and you won’t know until it’s too late. It doesn’t hurt to bring both latex and non-latex options, just to be safe and respectful.
Wipes: Use non-scented, hypoallergenic wipes. These are perfect for freshening up between rounds and ensuring you’re clean and considerate of your partners.
Water-Based Lube: Never assume lube will be provided. A small travel-size bottle of water-based lube is perfect and compatible with all condom types.
Deodorant: Reapply after every session. Trust us, staying fresh is part of being a sought-after guest.
Small Nail Clippers: You don’t want to be remembered for a scratch or a snag. A quick nail check can save the night.
Mints and Oral Care: This includes mints, ChapStick, travel-size mouthwash, and even a compact toothbrush and toothpaste. Good breath and smooth lips go a long way.
Fresh Underwear: Changing into a clean pair after play keeps you comfortable and fresh for the next encounter.
Be Ready for Round Two (Or Three)
The goal of your Hotwife play kit is to help you clean up, refresh, and be ready for whatever comes next. These events can last several hours, and if you’re doing it right, you might find yourself playing more than once. Having your essentials on hand shows you’re thoughtful, experienced, and serious about creating great experiences for everyone involved.
One major tip is to avoid strong scents. This includes cologne, body sprays, and oil-based products. They can be overwhelming in shared spaces, and worse, they transfer to others. Nobody wants to go back to their partner smelling like someone else’s fragrance. Keep it light, clean, and scent-free.
Being a successful single male at a Hotwife event isn’t just about looks or charm, it’s about being prepared, polished, and respectful. Bring your kit, use it often, and you’ll not only be invited back, but you’ll also be remembered.
